Selena Gomez finally speaks out: “That kidney transplant was so messed up — and now she’s using it to make me feel guilty!” – Shocking confession turns Hollywood’s ‘miraculous’ friendship into its bitterest feud… But Selena still says she’s grateful
After years of silence, Selena Gomez has finally broken her silence on her tumultuous relationship with her kidney donor, Francia Raisa. In a newly revealed interview, the 32-year-old singer admitted that receiving the kidney in 2017 “wasn’t easy” and had created a huge emotional burden for both of them.
Selena said bluntly:

“That kidney transplant was really complicated. I carried with me a sense of gratitude, but also a sense of guilt. Francia always brought it up as a reminder, and sometimes I felt like I had to live to repay her. It was a mental burden that I didn’t know how to release.”

The confession sent shockwaves through social media, leaving many fans in disbelief that Selena – who once called Francia her “sister” – would admit to having negative feelings about the person who saved her life.
Friendship from miracle to wound
In 2017, Selena Gomez was diagnosed with serious complications from lupus, which left her kidneys almost non-functioning. When all hope was almost lost, Francia Raisa – her best friend at the time – donated a kidney. The surgery was successful, and the two appeared together on television, sharing happy tears.
However, over time, their relationship gradually became cold. Fans noticed that the two no longer appeared together, did not interact on social media, and even had ambiguous statements from both sides. Rumors of a rift were fueled when Selena once said that “my only close friend in the entertainment industry is Taylor Swift,” to which Francia responded succinctly but sarcastically: “Interesting.”
Feeling “Owed” and Mutual Hurt
According to a source close to Selena, she always felt “bound by gratitude,” while Francia felt “not recognized enough.” This created a distance between them.
Selena admitted:
“I never wanted our relationship to be toxic. But there were times when I felt like I couldn’t breathe. It was like she was constantly reminding me that I was alive because of her — it was nagging at me.”
The statement divided public opinion. Some thought Selena was just expressing her true feelings, while others criticized her for being ungrateful, saying “if it weren’t for Francia, Selena probably wouldn’t be here.”

But in the end, Selena still expressed gratitude
However, at the end of the interview, Selena’s voice softened. She choked up and said:
“I don’t deny those difficult feelings, but I am still grateful to her – forever. Without Francia, I wouldn’t have been able to continue my music career, I wouldn’t have been able to live this life. No matter what happens, I will always be grateful to her.”
These words made many fans cry. Perhaps, the friendship between Selena Gomez and Francia Raisa has passed its best time, but the truth is – in Selena’s heart, gratitude is still there, even though it is hidden behind the wounds and misunderstandings that are not easy to heal.
